Monday, March 5, 2012

Faithful Living, Faithful Dying-A Lenten Series at Grace Church, Siloam Springs




Death, for Christians, is understood not merely as an event that we must undergo at the end of life but also as an ever-present accompaniment to the story of our lives. It is an integral part of life, a mystery to be contemplated as we live. Just as we make decisions about how we choose to live, we also make decisions about how we would approach death—our own and the deaths of others—and an awareness of the fact that we will someday die is necessary for faithful living. Preparing for our own death is a vital part of our spiritual journey.




We are People of the Incarnation. We all die. Death is a part of living.

Joseph Campbell, the late great mythologist and anthropologist said that all cultures throughout history have developed narratives—myths—that attempt to explain death as a fact of life and yet also a profound mystery that offers meaning to life.

Our Christian narrative has a foundation that depends heavily on the connection between life and death. Jesus said: I came so that you might have life and have life abundantly.

That life is a communal one—Trinitarian—all parties are in communion with one another.

It involves seeking wholeness (salvation)—rooted in notions of haelen and salvus.

It involves compassion and suffering 

It involves living as one who looks upon death differently (not as the end, but as the means).

We don’t deal much with “illness” directly in this series, but let me say here that as Christians, we can legitimately draw a distinction between “cure” and “healing.” 

Cure is a biological process; healing is ontological—that is, it involves the essence of meaning that transcends whatever reality may appear to be biologically. Healing can and does occur even in the face of death. Death may even be a means by which healing is experienced.




But we have not always looked on death in this way. We will approach the theological underpinnings of such perspectives in subsequent sessions, but I want to spend a few minutes now highlighting some of the ways in which people have viewed death across time.
I begin with a pre-modern image known well because it continues to find expression in subsets of our culture today.
Death is the one who stalks its prey, conjuring up fear because of its inevitable, comprehensive reach that touches all. 


Death as a mower with bandaged eyes
This work was carried out by an unknown 17th C artist.
Death is often represented with a horse, a musical instrument, or with bow and arrows, but also sometimes with a scythe; this drawing unites the last two characteristics, which is rather rare.
The bandaged eyes of Death are a clear symbol: it mows everybody, without making any difference.
It is difficult to determine to which gender this androgynous silhouette belongs—is this a delicate man or an athletic woman??
An unusual element in this work is that death is represented as a human with no sign of decomposition—much more common to that era were representations of death with skeletons, rotting corpses, and the like—very effective tools in conveying the feelings of fear and horror.

 Triumphing Death
This color drawing on parchment by an anonymous master of the early 16th Century, shows Death with a bow and arrow in its hands, arms outstretched in a gesture of triumph over humankind.
At its sides are a man and woman, half naked. At its feet lie pell-mell some clerics and laymen, representing the comprehensive scope of the victory—pope, cardinal, bishop, abbot, and priest; emperor, king, count, gentleman, soldier, peasant, scientist, userer, painter, musician and child.

The Triumph of Death
In this vision of the end of the world, painted by Pieter Bruegel the Older around 1562, 
Death is at the center. Armed with scythe and rides an emaciated horse.
It pushes men into a crate with a door marked by a cross—it appears to be a trap door…














Death is the enemy with whom we must negotiate
How and when do you want to die?
  “system failure”
  Exsanguination
  Sepsis
  Cancer
Since the 1950s, the road to death has taken a detour—technological imperative.
Is dying “from natural causes” really an option anymore?
Now, a caveat…
This is not the image of death I want to espouse, nor is it one that affords us the richest opportunity to engage the work of defining what is our
theology of death” as Christians, but it is a prominent, if not pre-eminent, image of death for us today, so I offer it here:







We no longer die at home, as former generations always have.
Who here has been to a wake where the body was in the home prior to a funeral?
We no longer experience death with all the senses—not even our food (chicken breasts). Farmers knew death firsthand—we are no longer agrarian.


Our experience of death has changed
  -we live longer
  -we don’t have death around us…

But it is still experienced…in multiple dimensions as familial, social, and spiritual events in the lives of others who surround the one who is dying.
















Week Two:Death in Culture




 Death, for Christians, is understood not merely as an event that we must undergo at the end of life but also as an ever-present accompaniment to the story of our lives. It is an integral part of our lives, a mystery to be contemplated as we live. The experience of growing older makes us more aware of this reality. This awareness is not often conscious but lies just beneath the surface, ready to emerge again and again. Many things can call it to mind—death of a friend or loved one, news headlines of a plane crash or accident that is startles us. Even the change of the seasons reminds us that our lives are caught up in the cycle of birth, growth, decline and death.
In the Christian understanding, death is not a bad thing—a consciousness of the fact that we will someday die is a necessary accompaniment to faithful living.
And yet…

Yet we receive little support from contemporary society for our Christian endeavor to face death in life. Our culture conspires against acknowledging its inevitability.
  -dying persons are concealed
  -we speak in euphamisms--of “passing away” or “losing” those we love.
  -medicalization of death (treats death as a biological accident)
-films show heroes with remarkable resistance to the demise of death
-violence in video games, action films, “comic” books minimize death



As Christians, we live in the paradox of death’s universal sting, while hoping to find meaning in and through it as well. (we’ll say much more about that next week)
Our culture, far from understanding this paradoxical mystery, nevertheless knows it at some level too. Why else would it be that even as our culture conceals death in a heavy cloak of silence (at one level), it is obsessed with death (17% GDP on health care, violence in films, etc.). And yet, death is there at every turn, too. Why? Because we cannot control it—so we create a fantasy of fictional entertainment—movies, video games, horror houses, interventional health care system, etc.
But there is something more to be gleaned…



What are some ways in which we see death in our culture?
  Most Oscar winning movies deal with death as a significant subject matter:
2009  The Hurt Locker
2008  Slumdog Millionaire
2007  No Country For Old Men
2006  The Departed
2005  Crash
  Lord of the Rings
Chicago (characters connected by shooting death)
Gladiator
Others: Titanic, English Patient, Braveheart, Schindler’s List, Unforgiven, Silence of the Lambs…
Music connects too. Funeral March—Chopin’s 3rd movement of Piano Sonata
And lest we think it is only classical music that speaks to death, here’s a clip from music video in pop culture. Evanescence, a band from LR, Bring Me TO Life—a song about wistful loss of life, suicide and letting go…themes addressed to our children.
Poetry and Literature: Google “Death poem” and you’ll get more than 6 million hits. I challenge you to think of any classical or modern poet of some measure of fame whose pen has not probed the poetic truth of death. It is rich.
And then there are the visual arts.

Guernica, Picasso’s famous painting depicting the bombing of Guernica, Spain in 937 as part of the Spanish Civil War.



Neil’s “Death of a Child”

David’s famous “death of Marat”

Munch’s The Scream

Gustav Klimt’s “Death and Life” (1911)


Satellite photo of smoke rising from WTC collapse, 9/11/2001. 250 miles above earth.
My experience with Rutter’s Requiem on 9/11.
2011-Trinity Requiem composed by Robert Moran.




The arts deal with death in a way that technological knowledge cannot—there is meaning to be found in our artistic expressions of death.
I have offered just a few artistic expressions of death—by no means exhaustive, and I do not mean to suggest that what these artists have rendered is “correct” in some way for you or me, but art approaches life with some target of mystic wholeness in mind.
Left brain—Right Brain functioning
Right brain is where much of the insight, the deep mystery of life and death, resides.
Metaphor is ultimately a very faithful servant of truth—the paradox of seeing and not seeing discloses the central nature of a metaphor (and through it what symbolic meanings we draw in our experience of life)
Art operates in the realm of the metaphor—it is where the spiritual reality is conjoined with, and stands behind, the physical reality—it is a means by which we can discover what is holy, important, sacred, meaningful, etc.
So I am going to ask you to spend the next few minutes with your right brain driving…
  It is not easy for many of us
  You will not be asked to share, although those who want to can
Close your eyes, if you wish, and peer deep for what is there.
When I say “picture death,” what do you see?
If you were to render the mystery in some artiful expression, what would it be? 




Listen to Rutter's Requiem here

Listen to Barber's Adagio (organ setting) here.






Week Three--Theological Perspectives of Death




What is the concept of time in your doctrine of creation? i.e., did time exist before creation?  Is time part of the created order? What is timelessness?


•The Anglican spiritual tradition has been incarnational, one that emphasizes a sacramental view of the material world, finding in it the outward and visible signs of inward and spiritual grace.
•It celebrates the goodness of God’s creation, often with a tendency toward deification (God became human that humans might become divine—an Orthodox view emphasizing our objective as one of communion with God in life).
• It is a kingdom theology,
rooted in our sacramental theology,
thoroughly grounded in common worship, and
envisions a continuity between the people of God in scripture and the people of God in our time.
Salvation history is a record of God’s agency that continues today, and our liturgical life bears witness to that hope.




Notion of Redemption is not “christian”—it finds expression in OT and NT and in cultures of ancient Near East.
Our tradition has not been monolithic in its expression—indeed, Chalcedon committed to clear understanding of the “person” of Christ, but never saw fit to derive one doctrine of soteriology.
Four (or five) have found prominent expression over the course of our history:
1.Divinization (theosis)—more common in Eastern tradition. God became human so that humans might become divine..
Work of God is in Christ
Locus of work is in incarnation and in death and resurrection of JC.
Athanasius, Gregory of Aza., Rahner
2.Christus Victor
Christ is our representative in cosmic battle between God and devil
Irenaeus, Augustine, Gregory the Great
Humanity is trapped and enslaved by the devil until God (using Jesus) frees us
3.Satisfaction
Humans have caused the mess and are indebted to God—the debt is paid by death as a result of our disobedience and sin.
Humans have no means to pay the debt since we already owe everything to God.
Only a God-Man has ability (God) and the obligation (man) to pay the debt.
Since Jesus had no sin (and therefore, no debt to God), he is our representative in paying the debt on our behalf
Anselm
4.Substitution (derivation of the Satisfaction theory)
Penal substitution—Jesus takes our place and bears our punishment even though we deserve eternal punishment
Reformed tradition, our own Rite I
5.Moral Example
JC lives and dies to fulfill what we cannot.
JC is epitome of love-dying in loving sacrifice on cross.
JC died for our sins but not to conjure up our guilt but out of shear love.
Our loving response is to follow in his footsteps, acting in sacrificial love
Abelard.


Resurrection—is rising to life from death (not specifically Christian in origin)
  -different from resuscitation or reanimation of the physical body
  -denotes a complete transformation of the human body and spirit (totality is affected/changed—1 Cor 15_35-55)
Something which happened in the past has inaugurated something new, which will reach its final consummation in the future.
Contemplation of the Christian hope serves as a solace and balm to those who fear the end of life by reminding them that something more wonderful awaits them beyond
The theology of death that we as Christians adopt is one that looks on death through the lens of Easter—through the promise that the sting is real, very real, but it is not final.
In all cultures, burial rites exist as liminal periods—moments of transition for the departed and the bereaved –it is a time of change in nature of relationships.
For Christians, the burial rite echoes our rites of baptism and eucharist because they are rooted in the Paschal mystery of Christ’s death and resurrection.
The burial rite also echoes the Liturgy of All Saints, because we claim with assurance that we take our place in the communion of saints. God’s grace knows no bounds of time and space the way we do.



Past
…but there is also the statement in Matthew 27: At that moment the curtain of the temple was torn in two, from top to bottom. The earth shook, and the rocks were split. The tombs also were opened, and many bodies of the saints who had fallen asleep were raised. After his resurrection they came out of the tombs and entered the holy city and appeared to many.
Nicene and Apostles’ Creeds: He descended to the dead…
Present
John 5:24 he who hears my word has eternal life…has passed form death to life”
He who eats this bread will live forever (Jn 6:58)
Jesus will raise them up on the last day (John 6:40, 11:25)
Future
1 Cor. 15:20 … resurrection is an act of God, who raised Jesus from the dead as the “first fruits” in anticipation of the general resurrection.
  -the resurrected will shine like stars (Dan. 12.3)
  -the resurrected will be like the angels (Mark 12:25)
  -not thought to be an individual event but a corporate event—God would raise all the elect at the end of history (timelessness)
  -outside the bounds of time
  
Jesus’ resurrection offers the connection between redemption and eschatology

For Paul, Jesus’ resurrection enables believers to live in the knowledge that death has been overcome, and eternal life will be experienced in the age to come. (parousia)—HOPE for eternal life (which is a life uninterrupted by death)

Eternal life—vindication for the Son of Man (Mark 7?)
Romans 5:12-21—new creation
Eph. 4:6-8—heavenly exaltation.






Resurrection—so what?
Jesus’ resurrection offers the connection between redemption and eschatology
God is making all things new.
New creation in Rev. 22—Bridegroom says Come, all come—new creation gathers up all (incarnational)
Parousia (fullness of Christ’s coming in glory)—vanquishing death and forces of evil
Hope for eternal life—not something to be experienced after death, but here and now
Already done (past), offered now (present), fully experienced in future

For Paul, Jesus’ resurrection enables believers to live in the knowledge that death has been overcome, and eternal life will be experienced in the age to come. (parousia)—HOPE for eternal life (which is a life uninterrupted by death)



For Christians, the burial rite echoes our rites of baptism and eucharist because they are rooted in the Paschal mystery of Christ’s death and resurrection.

The burial rite also echoes the Liturgy of All Saints, because we claim with assurance that we take our place in the communion of saints. God’s grace knows no bounds of time and space the way we do.

Chronos vs. Kairos

Recall that on the first night we spoke of our identity as an incarnational people
  --enfleshed, incarnate
  --broadened meaning as People of the Incarnation of God’s Son (Trinitarian)
Nowhere is this more pronounced than in the burial rites

Two parts:
Commending the deceased to God
Committing the body to the ground.

Communal—Both parts occur in the company of those who grieve…

A funeral is, therefore, for the one who has died, for his body’s care, and for those who grieve.





At your tables, take a look at a section of the burial office together.
  What strikes you about this component? Themes? Shortcomings? Etc.







Week Four--End of Life Decisions



Even though we cannot normally plan when we die, we often can direct some aspects of the dying process.
First, a disclaimer: I am no attorney, but making these decisions in advance is a gift.
Removes the burden of trying to make those decisions at a very stressful moment.
Removes the potential for family members to spend their energy disagreeing, rather than focusing their attention on you and each other.
Puts you in charge!

Legal tools are available (but only of value if they are completed!)
Religious tools are available too. (that’s one primary objective of this series)



We have forms here which are recognized by the State of Arkansas.
What is required to execute these documents?
At least 18 years of age
Of sound mind
Must be signed (not verbal, but can be signed by another at the declarant’s direction)
Witnessed by two individuals
Does not need to be notarized in Arkansas

When does it become operative?
When it is communicated to the attending physician, and
when the declarant is determined by the attending physician and another physician in consultation either to be
in a terminal condition and no longer able to make decisions regarding administering life-sustaining treatment, or
to be permanently unconscious

How is it revoked?
By the declarant at any time and in any manner without regard to the declarant’s mental or physical condition. Tear up the copies!!!
The attending physician shall make the revocation part of the medical record.




Five Wishes—a copyrighted form of an advanced directive combining a living will and health care power of attorney in addition to addressing matters of comfort care and spirituality.
Originally developed by Jim Towey who had worked with Mother Teresa of Calcutta as legal counsel for her outreach intiatives here in US.
He and others founded a non-profit, Aging With Dignity, with a focus “to improve end-of-life care by encouraging people to make medical decisions in advance of a serious illness.”
It began in Florida, then modified by the ABA in 1998 and is now accepted as a legally-recognized form in 40 states, including Arkansas.
Answer Five Questions (wishes)



Advance planning required (you won’t get a say at that time)
Talk with your family and your priest
Make decisions  (cremation, columbarium/plot, context for funeral, etc.)
Tell us what you would like us to do? (at funeral/memorial svc, etc.)



It has been stated that your consideration of death gives rise to the need to plan ahead for this inevitable event.  There are, however, two basic types of detailed planning involved in this process: 
(1)planning for the disposition and burial of your body, and
(2)planning for the disposition of your estate (any money, property, or other assets that you will leave behind).
Estate planning is an essential aspect of Christian stewardship.  As you prepare for your death, you will want to think about how you will want to share—to the glory of God and the ongoing care of God’s people—the gifts God has graciously yet temporarily given into your possession.
Celebrate!  Celebrate the abundance with which you have been blessed by God. Celebrate your generous support of charitable endeavors.  And share that joy with Grace!



Using the forms available here, and the BCP and Hymnal, begin to “plan” your funeral.



Blessing: THE God of peace, who brought again from the dead our Lord Jesus Christ, the great Shepherd of the sheep, through the blood of the everlasting covenant; Make you perfect in every good work to do his will, working in you that which is well pleasing in his sight; through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen.

Please feel free to email me for specific documents referenced here.



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